I have to agree with Tim about the personal preference thing, as well as all else he said. I've used cane poles, bait casters, spinning gear, and the fly rod. All hold a special place in my heart. I can only speak for my own personal preferences. Number one, it is fishing, and rivers that are the true addiction for me. I had a flyrod for many years before I was in the right state of mind to use it much.. I had to be in a slow down, relaxed mode, thinking more about my casting and whatnot than on catching fish. This was very difficult for me at first. Frame of mind was the key for me. Now I love my flyrods. I have also become proficient enough that I can think more about the catching of fish than the cast. I move along much faster with the flyrod these days, as I said earlier, I usually like to cover some ground. This said, my spinning gear is still my favorite. This may be due to the fact that I feel most comfortable in my ability with this gear.
As for the wading, once again, I like to move along. When with other anglers I do hold back. I too feel it would be rude to jump ahead. When with friends that don't get out as much as I do, I get a bigger thrill out of seeing them land a nice fish than landing them myself. When alone I am usually in a keep it moving mode.